Clean and trim the okra: Trim about 1/4 inch/0.6 cm off the top of the okra, while reserving its conical shape (watch the video tutorial), wash and drain.
Roast the okra: Okra needs to be roasted or fried to get rid of its slippery texture, I am going to keep it healthy and roast in the oven, and the result is good as well. Toss the okra with salt and 4 tablespoons of olive oil. Line a baking sheet with parchment paper, arrange the okra in a single layer and bake in the oven of 230 °C/ 450 °F until golden brown, flipping midway through baking. Remove from the oven and set aside to cool down a bit.
Peel the tomatoes: Bring a large pot of water to a boil, and make a shallow x, using a knife, on each tomato. Drop them in boiling water for a few seconds. Remove with a slotted spoon and set aside to cool down. Use your fingers to peel the tomatoes.
Make the red tomato sauce: Heat olive oil in a pot, add the onions and cook, stirring occasionally, till transparent, add the crushed or sliced garlic, give a quick stir and cook for 30 seconds, make sure not to burn the garlic (garlic burns easily). Add the chopped tomatoes and cook over low heat for about 7 minutes. Stir in the water and tomato paste, stir well to infuse everything together, season with salt, crushed Habaneros (if used) and ground cilantro.
Stew the roasted okra: Ass the roasted okra to the pot and let it simmer, covered, on low heat for about 10 to 15 minutes. And if you're a pomegranate molasses lover, drizzle 3 tablespoons or more to provide the bamia with a sweet and tangy undertone. Serve it with Lebanese bread, pita bread, white rice or rice and vermicelli.